Parents Shouldn’t Oblige Their Children to Become Breadwinners, Says Mama Lulu
MAMA LULU – The TikTok star believed that parents should not oblige children to become breadwinners.
The debate on whether children should be expected to become the primary breadwinners of their families has recently sparked mixed reactions online. Some believe that children should financially support their parents, while others argue that this should be a personal choice rather than an obligation.
As the conversation gained traction, several public figures voiced their opinions. One of them was content creator Mama Lulu, who disagreed with the idea that children are required to provide for their parents once they finish their education. In a video, she said, “Hindi. Nasa kusa na iyon ng anak kung magbibigay sila sa magulang o hindi.” Mama Lulu emphasized that children should not be obligated to give financial support, adding that they did not ask to be born and should be allowed to follow their own dreams.
She urged parents to focus on helping their children achieve their own aspirations, saying, “Mga anak kasi natin, may mga sariling pangarap iyan. I-push natin sila kung ano gusto lang gawin sa buhay nila. Hindi ‘yung gusto natin na masususnod. May sariling buhay sila na dapat nilang alagaan din.” She also highlighted the importance of offering guidance without imposing expectations.
While Mama Lulu is thankful that her children voluntarily support her, she clarified that she never demanded it. She acknowledged the difficult reality faced by many parents who rely on their children for financial assistance due to the government’s failure to provide adequate services. However, she also noted the challenges of life abroad, stating that survival is still a struggle in the U.S.
@otakoyakisoba Mama LuLu’s OPINION on children being expected to be the breadwinner of the family.
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Mama Lulu, along with her children Oliver, Donnabelle, and Apple Balgos, gained fame through their TikTok page “Otakoyakisoba,” where they share humorous videos. Their content became popular during the pandemic, with their natural family dynamic and Mama Lulu’s candid personality drawing in millions of followers. They have also used their platform to advocate for important causes like Stop Asian Hate and Black Lives Matter.