Lady Content Creator Addresses Issues w/ Her Dad Who Abandoned Their Family
A lady content creator touched the hearts of netizens with her message for the father who abandoned them.
Recently, Gell Gadiano, a Facebook user, shared her story about her father, who abandoned their family 16 years ago. The post immediately spread like wildfire on social media and elicited comments online.
Gadiano recalled how, at just 12 years old, she had to step into responsibilities too heavy for a child. Instead of being cared for, she worked as a house helper, caring for others’ children while sacrificing her education to provide for her younger sibling.
It was a heavy burden, made harder by the absence of the father who chose another path, leaving them behind.
Gell’s father had embraced another family while refusing to show love to his own children. Adding to the pain was his decision to change his name, as if to erase all ties to them. She chose to free herself from bitterness despite the heartache.
The female content creator shared her wish that, when the time comes and her father is no longer strong, they would still care for him, even if he had turned away from them.
Here is the full post:
“Pa! Pinapalaya na kita sa buhay na pinili mo
16years na mula nung tinalikuran mo yung pagiging ama mo samin , iniwan at tinalikuran mo yung mga obligasyon samin , pinili mo yung sarili mo yung buhay na hindi mo kami kasama , NAKAKA IYAK MAN ISIPIN NA MAY TATAY PALA NA KATULAD MO na kayang mag paka ama sa ibang bata pero saming dugot laman mo kahit konting pag mamahal ipinag dadamot mo .
na mulat ako sa sobrang hirap ng buhay na alala ko 12years old palang ako na ngangatulong nako ,nag aalaga ng mga bata “pero bata pako na dapat inaalagaan” hindi nakapag aral dahil mas pinili ko na saluhin lahat ng obligasyon na iniwan mo sa kapatid ko
ayaw mo ng mag paka tatay samin at pinipili mo na yung pangalawa mong pamilya! at alam mi pinaka masakit na ginawa mo na naging desisyon mo yung pinapalitan mo yung pangalan mo para lang talikuran kami
pero pa sana pag dating ng panahon na mahina at hindi muna kaya , ipag dadasal ko na sana kahit sa huli lang kami yung hahanapin mong aalalay at mag aalaga sayo . Kapag dumating yung araw na un aalagaan at mamahalin ka padin namin kahit na ayaw mo samin na mga anak mo
pina palaya na kita sa buhay na pinili mo!”
The internet users expressed their reactions to the story:
