Lady Blogger Elicits Reactions Online After Sharing Why She Chose Foreign Partner
A lady blogger shared why she chose a foreign partner, clarifying that it wasn’t about money but something deeper.
Recently, the Facebook page “Charming Charm” shared photos with her foreign partner. The post immediately spread like wildfire on social media and elicited reactions from the online community.
The woman admitted to struggling with low self-esteem, and being with her partner helped her feel valued. He constantly complimented her, making her feel special and appreciated. His presence became her inspiration to face life’s challenges with confidence.
Addressing criticism about women with older foreign partners, she pointed out that many assume these relationships are transactional, overlooking the genuine love behind them. In her case, her partner was kind, caring, and embraced Filipino culture.
Over time, his sincerity won her heart. She acknowledged that their relationship had challenges, including dealing with other women flirting with him. However, they remained strong together.
The Pinay blogger encouraged men to appreciate their partners, noting that many Filipinas prefer foreigners because they feel more valued in these relationships.
Ultimately, she emphasized that she and her partner are happy and unbothered by outside opinions, as they are not harming anyone.
Here is the full post:
“Reason talaga kaya ako nag-afam hindi dahil sa pera, Ang I have low self-esteem issue, Pero tika sino ba naman ayaw masabihan ng maganda? Lahat naman tayo gusto noon diba? Lahat tayo gusto ng positive feedback to those people surround us. Kaya gusto ko ng afam kasi lagi ako sinasabihan na maganda, kahit kakagising lang ikiss kana agad, at salubungin ng magandang ngiti. Araw araw ka sinasabihan na wow you look so beautiful, wow you are so pretty, oh I like it your so elegant. Wala ng ibang maganda sa kanila kundi ikaw lang. Kaya kahit gaanu man ka lupit ang mundo my isang taong ipaparamdam sayo na ka mahal mahal ka. Na hindi ka pangit. At yon ang magiging inspiration mo sa bawat battle na hinaharap mo araw araw. Kaya piliin mo yong taong pahalagahan ka araw2.”
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The internet users expressed their reactions to the post:
