Female netizen exposes cheating of partner for 5 years
CHEATING – A woman took to social media wherein she revealed the pain she felt of being betrayed by her partner of 5 years, who cheated on her and left her while she was pregnant with their child.
Kimberly Anne Mendoza is shocked and unable to comprehend how her ex-boyfriend could justify his actions, describing it as the ultimate display of audacity. Despite going through a challenging pregnancy and childbirth alone, she is determined to be a responsible mother and raise her child without her partner in their lives.
On Facebook, she recounted the timeline of her partner’s betrayal, from denying the existence of the new girl he was involved with, to eventually being caught parading her publicly. She reveals that he had been cheating on her as early as 3 months into her pregnancy, a fact that devastated her even further. She describes it as the lowest a man could sink – to cheat on his partner while she is carrying his child.
Amid the difficult situation, she promises to raise her son to have healthy relationships and the right values, understanding that cheating is never acceptable. She addresses her partner’s attempts to play the victim and refuses to be his victim. Despite her partner moving on with another woman who already has children, she finds irony in the fact that he chose to abandon his own child for someone else’s children.
Here’s the full post of Mendoza:
“Hindi pa patay, sumakabilang bil*t lang + tinalikuran ang responsibilidad sa anak (emoji)
Cheating is one thing, but leaving your partner of 5 years while pregnant with your child, to be with someone you met just months ago??? THE AUDACITY. You want a trip down memory lane? Here’s the SUMMARY.
I’ve been silent these past few months to mentally and physically prepare for the invasive childbirth, however, I will not sit here while you throw dirt all on my name and make up stories where you were the VICTIM in the situation you absolutely created yourself and then flip the story to manipulate people to think you’re INNOCENT. We were together for 5 YEARS, willingly, I had never forced you into staying such as your narrative to your friends and family. Everything was fine in our relationship, we were happy—or just so I thought. 7 months into my pregnancy you left me hanging to be with the girl you just met months ago, in your workplace. Never in my wildest dreams you are actually capable to do that to us. Initially you denied to me and my family you have a relationship with that girl and that, you just lost feelings naturally. Time passed and there you are, parading the girl you denied, I guess time really is the truth teller. I also found out that you were already cheating on me on the month of September when I was 3 months pregnant, how cruel could that be? That is the fricking lowest a man could steep—to cheat while his partner is carrying his baby.
You wont even come up to half the shit I went through; STRESSFUL pregnancy that permanently altered my body (while you were messing up with someone else), childbirth, episiotomy, staying up late to breastfeed, sore body, postpartum depression. This journey should be made with a partner, that was the plan all along and that was the expectation since we were already longterm but you suddenly dipped and chose to have a single-responsibility-free life.
Now that I birthed MY SON, I refuse to have you in our lives. A lot of people think a child needs his dad, I dont agree. A child needs a safe dad, a consistent dad, a dad that understands that his child COMES BEFORE immature selfishness, a dad that has emotional maturity, a dad that respects his child’s mother, a dad that understands a kid is a permanent life changing decision and not a random breathing toy popped out of a woman’s body, if he is not that dad, a child doesnt need him. This manchild is too complacent on the fact that my son turned out to be a boy and that he’ll seek for a father one day, well breaking news, I will parent him to be a wonderful gentleman that respects both women and men, and knows that cheating is never right, and someday my kid are going to figure you out. I promise you he will. The type of partner you are. The type of a person you are.
You can play victim all you want, but I refuse to be YOUR victim, I will rise above the situation you had put me through because I am a responsible mother and another human being depends solely on me and I will give my child a better life no matter what it takes me. (emojis)
PS: Pinagpalit lang naman kami ng anak ko sa NANAY na may 3 anak na hahaha WOW”
Her post has generated mixed reactions from the netizens. Here are some of the comments:
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