Valentine Rosales Gives a Piece of Advice to Jude Bacalso
VALENTINE ROSALES – The social media personality criticized LGBTQIA+ writer Jude Bacalso for insisting on being addressed as “ma’am.”
Previously, Jude had advocated for netizens to use correct pronouns when addressing LGBTQIA+ individuals, emphasizing that it shows respect. Jude stated that calling someone by their correct pronoun is respectful and doesn’t take anything away from either party.
“Calling someone by their correct pronoun is a form of respect, and I’ll give you that. Walang mawala sakin, walang mawala sayo,” said Jude.
However, Valentine argued that Jude should differentiate between preferred and legitimate pronouns. He pointed out that while Jude may prefer to be called “she,” her legitimate pronoun is “he.” Valentine questioned how Jude could expect others to respect her when, in his view, she doesn’t respect her own identity by choosing a pronoun that doesn’t match her biological sex.
“Excuse me, I think you need to rephrase your sentence ang correct pronoun mo is He,” said Valentine. “Pero She ang preferred pronoun mo! Iba ang PREFERRED pronoun sa legitimate pronoun mo. At pano ka rerespetohin kung di mo nga ni rerespeto ang sarili mo! HE ka ginagawa mong SHE?” he added.
At the same time, Jude is facing legal trouble, as a waiter has filed charges against her for allegedly forcing him to stand for two hours after addressing Jude as “sir.” As of the latest update, Jude has yet to respond to Valentine’s remarks.
Meanwhile, Jude Bacalso received backlash after he disciplined a waiter, R-Jay Marcilla, by making him stand for two hours after being addressed as “sir.” While Bacalso apologized for the incident, some online users dispute his version of events. Despite the controversy, the waiter has unexpectedly gained job offers, including a supervisor role and an opportunity abroad. However, he has yet to comment on these offers or the ongoing situation.
Several celebrities, including Ogie Diaz, MJ Lastimosa, RR Enriquez, Kaladkaren, and social media personality Tito Mars, have publicly criticized Bacalso’s actions toward the waiter, adding to the public debate surrounding the incident.
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