Bride-to-Be Upset Over Silver Engagement Ring
IS LOVE ENOUGH? – A bride-to-be went viral after expressing her disappointment over receiving a silver engagement ring instead of a gold one from her fiancé.
In an open letter shared on the Peso Sense Facebook page, the woman shared her mixed emotions. She explained that while she deeply loves her fiancé and was overjoyed when he proposed, she felt hurt by the choice of ring, believing it made her feel less valued. She questioned whether she should feel upset for receiving a silver engagement ring instead of gold, despite her happiness over the proposal.
She admitted that the silver ring made her feel as though she wasn’t valuable enough to receive something more special. She pointed out that gold lasts longer than silver, and since her fiancé could afford gold, it added to her disappointment. She explained that gold is a stronger metal that lasts longer, while silver easily gets scratched and fades, making her worry about the lasting symbol of their love.
The woman also expressed her struggle with how to bring up the issue to her fiancé. She tried to be content with the ring but found it difficult, as she felt that what he gave her might not endure. While she appreciated his effort, she still struggled with the thought that the ring may not last over time.
Her post quickly gained attention online, sparking debates among netizens about the true meaning of engagement rings, and whether their value lies in the material or in the love and intention behind the proposal.
Meanwhile, a similar story made headlines last year when a woman, after eight years of being with her boyfriend, was proposed to but felt upset upon discovering that the engagement ring he bought cost only P299 on Shopee. She questioned whether this reflected how much he valued her and struggled with whether to bring it up or stay silent to avoid ruining the special moment.